Fine!

A: Hello...!!!!

B: Hi.

A: I haven't seen you in a while!

B: Yes, true.

A: How have you been?

B: Fine.

A: I'm glad...

B:....

A: Well I'm doing very well! I'm married now and...

Can you see the difference between the two?

I can FEEL the difference too!

How often do we get asked how we're doing and we say fine?

I get asked that a lot...and I always find myself answering with 'fine'!

Google's defenition of fine is:

"of very high quality; very good of its kind."

My defenition of fine is:

"I feel tired! I am broken and sad! I am very scared you might be talking behind my back! I am constantly worried of what might happen!...........everything BUT FINE!"

Growing up made me realise a lot of things. It made me realise that it's FINE NOT TO BE FINE! How funny ayy??

Life is so full of ups and downs that you don't always get to be fine!

The key is to accept it and move on! It's not easy BUT it WILL get better!

I am not a professional, I am someone who struggles and brakes down! It's not easy for me to write and be open about these things, but I know what it's like to feel alone!

I can assure you that if you open your eyes you realise that you are NOT ALONE!

Being fine doesn't mean all your problems are gone or that you have no worries, but being fine means you are pushing through this though time! Being STRONG!

So I hope that when you get asked how you are doing you remember what you just read and you genuinely say fine because you know that you are not alone!

M x